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PostSubject: Very Very Upset   Thu Aug 02, 2012 11:30 pm

david my fiance....we moved to vegas i thought things were gonna get better but we fought yesterday and today he said he wants to meet other people, and that he finds strangers more interesting than i am....i just got on the computer to find porn...i hate my life....i hate everything.....he mentioned the cheating thing that he did to upset me. Yes he cheated on me already...and hit me.... an i was scared he will do it again...he gets on facebook an talks to girls....and i dont know what to do we are staying with my family now miles away from my home in mississippi. I do not know what to do anymore

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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:14 am

ok wow your boyfriend sounds like a complete and utter asshole >.< I wish I could come down and cheer you up DX *huggles you* however I wouldn't go looking for porn, your boyfriend isn't worth it. You deserve so much more then that louse, let us know how things go ok hun?
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:19 am

Sad All sounds really horrible, I'm keeping fingers crossed [[and toes, and eyes if need be]] that things get better for you soon. He doesn't sound worthy of you in any case x
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sat Aug 04, 2012 8:05 am

You should tell the police that he's been hitting you. You need to get out of there. Moving in with someone never guarantees things will be better. Moving in with someone is very stressful and it causes a lot of tension. NEVER move in with someone again until after you say the "I do"s, got it?

You've been getting hurt a lot, and that's because you're trying too hard to find the right guy, everything keeps going too fast with you. Slow. Down. Take a deep breath, and try to enjoy the idea of being single.

You don't have to wait around for someone when you want to go somewhere, you don't have to worry about another human being for awhile, you can openly flirt with cute guys, but not get serious with them.

You have to learn to take things slow; slow and steady win the race. You're not the type that needs to rush.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sun Aug 05, 2012 3:10 am

Dear...Seriously.
You have had such a terrible experience with Men. And now this. If he has not enough with you, And seeks strangers to satisfy his filthy wishes than you should leave him.

When you marry someone, You want to stay with this person ''till death do us part''And than you have enough with that person. You love that person. And will stay with them. Love them, Care for them.

IF, he truly loves you. Than He should stay to that ''till death do us part.'' Promise. IF he truly wants to marry you, He wants you and only you. Than he doesn't need porn, Than he doesn't need strangers. If he cares for you he doesn't need to hit you, He can just talk about it, I don't think the guy truly knows what Marriage means. He's still a kid.
If I were you, I would drop kick his ass to another planet.

All I can say is, That I wouldn't stay with him. And I wish you allot love for the future. <3 Stay strong dear. He's not worth your tears.

Idk If I made any sense or was just rambling, But I guess somewhere I made a point. XD
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sun Aug 05, 2012 6:48 am

Okay this may sound harsh, but my mom thaught me that if a man hits you once you walk. He will do it again if you don't teach him it is not okay. Plus if he is cheating on you and wanting to see other people, I say you dump him so fast he is left spinning. I am not gonna say anything about the watching porn thing, except he is a pig for leaving it out for you to find it like that.

My point in this is that you can find a better man for you than him. If he is going to act like that I doubt you can change him. You better leave him now than to take anymore of his crap. And things are not going to get better if the two of you get married or have babies or what ever.

Be strong hun, and just remember that there are people who love you and want nothing but good for you. -hugs-
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Mon Aug 06, 2012 5:09 pm

Thank you all for the advice, I told him I was going to leave him.....and a few minutes later he was saying how he wasn't leaving and how it was a stupid fight and everything.... He starts treated me better than bad again then better than bad again.... I know I should leave him but he is leaving with me an my family which makes it harder anyone wanna come to vegas an save me <3
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Mon Aug 06, 2012 10:03 pm

He's only doing that just because he believes you're an easy target; he doesn't care about you. I still say call the police and tell them that he has been hitting you. This isn't baseball, where it's "three strikes and you're out"; this is real life, so it's "one strike and you're history!"

I'd come to Vegas and save you if I could, hun. *hugs* But you need to get out of there, even if there is no one to save you; You need to be the hero.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 07, 2012 2:25 am

I agree with Johanna, Audrey and Niina!

It's one hit, and your out! You do not deserve to be treated the way he is treating you! What you need to do is exactly what Johanna is saying. Call the police. He won't stop due to he knows your weak, and a easy little target.

Trust me I know.. One of my cousins is in the exact same situation your in.

He does not love you. If he did, he wouldn't have hit you. I understand you want to find love, but you don't need to put yourself in this position to find it! Sweetie, you have you whole life to find someone who is meant to you. So live you life, don't let this jackass bring you down the way he is.

You need to call the police, and you need to leave him. Cause I don't want him to hurt you anymore. And I don't want to hear it on the news that someone died cause of a abusive boyfriend.

And for the porn thing, if he isn't satisfied with you definately leave him..

He. Is. Not. Worth. The. Pain. And. Sadness. You're. In!

He will do it again, and keep doing it.. Be the hero for yourself like Johanna said.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 07, 2012 8:55 pm

There is SO much I want to say about this, I'll try to summarize it.

First off, if he hits you, even ONCE. WALK. I'm serious. Ignore the "I'll never do it again", "I wasn't thinking", etc. He can do it again at any time. ANYONE worth marrying would never lay a finger on you.

Secondly, if he's unsatisfied and looking to others, that's horrible. He should feel comfortable enough to address your romantic/sex life with you. Maybe think up new things, have some fun. Smile But he's DEFINITELY not worth even that anymore.

I don't care if you say leaving him is "tough", either because you're living together or you're not sure what you'd do, that's no excuse. NEVER make excuses when you know it's wrong.

I must say; I am the biggest hopeless romantic you'll ever meet. I've been in love twice, and I don't regret either relationship.. I've never been with someone abusive, and if anyone even tried to hit me, I'd kick their ass to Paraguay. What you two have... It's not love.

You may love him, but what's unrequited love? Nothing. It's useless, it's just pain. Listen... I loved Josh very much. But.. in a way, he was mentally abusing me. Sort of unintentionally. But near the end of our relationship, I was so unhappy yet I bent over backwards to try to make it work, I kept telling myself, "it'll get better". It didn't. Eventually I realized I'm bigger than that, that I don't deserve to be treated like that, and now I'm done with him.

It's hard, trust me, I know. It's hard knowing how serious you were with someone, someone you saw a future with maybe. But you need to stop being comfortable with the idea of a stable relationship and be open to change, change for the better.

You are much like me, you always want a significant other in your life. That's not always a bad thing, but you have to be willing to be able to live your own life without them.

This may have all sounded really harsh, and I didn't intend for it to sound like that. But you need to be told it, and I'm angry FOR you, and YOU NEED TO LEAVE. Always remember my dear, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.

If you want to talk, feel free to message me at any time. Keep me updated. Please FREE YOURSELF.

I want the best for you, love, and he was not that.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Wed Aug 08, 2012 6:27 am

I don't know if this helps or anything, but like Chels and Johanna said you have to just be your own hero. And like Aladdin said, all change is good if you embrace it. Just tell him to leave.

My grandmother found her first husband and married him and they had a child together, and they moved far away from her family. The man had drinking problem, and started to lose money. He blamed my grandmom and when he hit her she packed her things and her baby boy with her and left the man. She traveled back to where her family lived and they took her in and gave her a small room. And mind you people weren't that acceptive with divorce that time. She got her fair share of ridicule and mock, but few years later she married my gradfather, and they lived happily together until he died. I never knew my grandfather, because he died like 30 years before I was even born, but what mom has told me he was a decent man, and very loving. The only thing he kept teasing my grandmother about was that she was otherwise a decent woman, but how come she couldn't saw a straight line XDD.


Don't lul yourself to the idea that happily ever afters come to you if you are just patient enough or suffer enough. You have to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince charming among them.

Okay hopefully this comment is the last one that I am making on this matter.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Thu Aug 09, 2012 5:01 am

I love you all for the advice you are giving me.... Today was hell .....like really bad... This is the story I woke up .... My stepmom told David to drive her expensive car...an David was scared to drive it cause if he wrecks that nice car.....anyways my stepmom yelled at him cause he would not drive it cause she was tired of driving...but we are new in Vegas we do not know the roads to get to and from work.... Anyways one little fight turned in to a big fight with me,david,and my stepmom...David was like your a bitch...a mrs.nightmare....to my stepmom...which she was being bitchy....telling david leave this house and sit outside your crazy and may break a window? So david was freaked he would be stranded 2000 miles away from his home in the desert O.o But David and me were fighting cause he was like I am going back to ms...you can fucking stay here.... we are done...I fought for him...cause he apparently did not mean what he said he was just upset....anyways the fight went on an on...I tried to calm david down....but he was like fuck you stay away from me I am leaving!!! I was like no no no do not leave do not leave me here....!!! So we finally all calmed down and me an david went to work....got dropped off of coarse cause he would not drive....so we worked an had a good day...we talked a few things out and he said look i love you and want us together I do not wanna leave you here....honestly....But I can not live with your family....Soo.....me an him started looking at appts and found one that covers everything for 800 like lights everything!!! So....we are moving out soon as we make enough money we are not breaking up....trying to work things out .....we almost left to go back to ms....but there is no work down there ms sucks....vegas will work out if we have our own place... cause right now my family has been freaking out on both of us causing a lot of stress on us....we did almost but things are ok now
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Thu Aug 09, 2012 2:24 pm

Wendy! Stop. NOW!

Do not move into a apartment with him, just don't! Your putting yourself in danger, and your going to get hurt! Do you really want to end up like most girls who DIE cause the guy kept saying he wouldn't hit you again!?

Plus, you said he hit you already, we don't even know how many times!!! And if it has you scared, I bet there is more then just one hit!

Do NOT move with him into a apartment, it's a very STUPID thing to do.

And I apologize I'm being harsh, but I will NOT and I repeat, NOT hear that someone died from a abusive relationship!

I was hoping, we all were hoping you were going to take our advice and leave that fucking asshole! But since your not, I want you to watch a movie, and you better watch it. Cause it's a important lesson for people like you who believe the stupid lies like:

"I'll never do it again."

Which is a bunch of bullshit.

But here is the movie. WATCH IT, It's called: No one would tell
Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHAWvjxtpS0
Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODRgVdhqX5Q
Part 3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hO2-xuyKPoA
Part 4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EwEoMGrcYiY
Part 5: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSe18ohXfKk
Part 6: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hm3Xo8tWEz8
Part 7: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6LjBnvIJww
Part 8: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rFsL7mLGUI
Part 9 Finale: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvs09v4lr0I

Also, Wendy, I'm sorry I'm being harsh.. But I am not going to sit here and watch you ruin your life!
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Thu Aug 09, 2012 2:34 pm

Wendy, sweetheart... Don't do this to yourself.

Tommy and I fight, but he NEVER threatens to leave me, even in anger. He has NEVER hit me or struck me in anyway.

THAT is real love, Wendy. Threatening you and being rude to your family is NOT love AT ALL!

LOVE is forgiving.
LOVE never abuses you.
LOVE never threatens you.
LOVE is about being able to cool down, without having to nurse a wound.
LOVE is real.

What this JERK feels for you is not LOVE; he is getting pleasure out of you giving into him, the only thing he LOVES about you is that you keep submitting to him and that you will do ANYTHING for him.

Isn't that right, Wendy?

GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP IF YOU EVER HOPE TO BE TRULY HAPPY!

GOD DOES NOT WANT THIS FOR YOU, WENDY!

If he is fighting with your family, THEN YOUR FAMILY IS NOT THE PROBLEM! FIND A WAY OUT!

I'm telling you for the LAST TIME! Call. The. POLICE. About. This. Jerk. ABUSING. You!
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Thu Aug 09, 2012 4:54 pm

I love you to death, you know this. So I will warn you that the following words may not be the kindest or most reassuring. But what you decided, to find an apartment with him and decided he was just 'too angry', decided to stay...

You are being foolish, blind, immature, stupid, ignorant, and you don't love or respect yourself as a person at all. I'm really disappointed in your decision. I know how hard it is, TRUST ME. I know what it's like trying to realize you're better off without said person. But you have to do it. You have to.

What you're doing is so foolish I just want to smack you upside the head. To be very honest with you as a friend who cares about you, YOU ARE BEING SO STUPID. PLEASE see that. You are truly blinded by love, that you don't realize what the HELL you're doing to yourself. I'm so angry, angry at him, and angry that you can't see that you need to LEAVE HIS ASS, CALL THE POLICE, WORRY ABOUT YOUR OWN LIFE AND FIND LOVE AS IT COMES.

I adore you, and I want the best for you, and I want you to simply have a happy life where LOVE is REAL love. This isn't love. PLEASE, listen to all of us. Do you really think we'd all be saying these things if we didn't know what you should do? What you NEED to do?

DAMNIT, please leave him!
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:35 am

Listen. This all smells so bad I can smell it all the way to Finland. And that ain't good. If he gets into fights with your family that ain't good.

Okay I will grant him that I know how annoying it is to live with someone whose ways you don't completely agree with. But he lives with your side of the family now, so in my opinion he should be very meek and not fight with the people who offered to take him in. That is pretty ungratefull.

And in my opinion the reason why he wants to move out with you is so he gets you away from your family. So they can't see what he is doing to you. If he has been going up and down like a fricking rollercoaster I don't think you should trust him. He is going to isolate you, so you can't go for help if you need it. Soon he will start telling you need to get off this forum or not to contact certain friends or not to go to your family as much.

I would say it was bad enough that he hit you. The fact that you keep forgiving him just enables him to go on. GET OUT NOW!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sat Aug 11, 2012 11:37 pm

I will watch the movie you sent me Poca, and everyone I know you all care about me. I love you all more than cake and cookies. Let me tell you the whole story even before David..


Ok before David I was with this boy named Jason...Me and my mom were homeless and ended up living with him and his father.. Things were ok at first. He seemed nice and I wen't to a good church right next door to his house and I invited him,We started hanging out and that is how we got to know each other. After church every wed the group wen't to mcdonalds. Jason tagged along, I had so many good friends. One named John who I have known for 10 years or more. He was there for me and I had a crush on him since I was 12. Well Jason and me finally started dating. John and me were only friends. But he did not like Jason... He kind of felt something was up with him. I just shunned it off cause Jason never hurt me or anything. We were happy when we first dated. In time I kept going to church and Jason enjoyed hanging out with all my friends things were great. But then he found out my crush for John in the past. I told him I was with him not to worry we were only friends.. That is when he told me I could not see him anymore... I was crushed but thought maybe I should not see my old crush...If it hurts Jason I mean. So...at church I barely said hi...and We still did the same routine at Mcdonalds. Then in time....John turned in to ok you can not text or talk to him at all!!! .....You have to remove him from your life. Rip pages out of journals...(which he found) Delete his number, Delete him from facebook.... all that..... So I did..... Then we started hanging out with my best friend and her bf which is now her current husband...lucky her... anyways we did that a while. Eventually we stopped hanging out with them as much because of Jason's controlling behavior.Then my girls wanted me to go out to the mall...He would not let me go. In time he would not let me see my friends unless he was present... He checked my cell every day...He turned in to a monster.... I stopped going to church...I stopped seeing my friends... I became very depressed...Just Jason was in my life.... Well....then we started fighting and fighting and fighting . One of my friends Missy hung out with me and Jason a lot before he started treating me bad (different friend from earlier) Eventually she noticed how bad he was....and one night invited me to a church thing in a different state...here is the kicker...with JOHN..... I was like Missy...if Jason...She is like John is your friend!! Stop treating him this way!!! You are going!!! So I lied told Jason I was seeing a movie with my stepmom.... So he would not text me every 5 seconds or bother me... So I wen't we had fun and then Jason texted me saying If you don't answer I am getting drunk...I am drinking right now!!! I started crying...in car at convention....worried about him...John took my cell away and said... Why are you with this idiot!!!! OMG!!!!!!! I am taking this phone away from you!! So he did....until we got back in state...Me and Missy dropped John off...and I was so sad..... Finally found Jason....he did not get drunk ...or almost die... He lied to get me to come back.... O.o Well....A year past and he started being cruel and evil...and calling me lazy,clumsy every time I tripped. Called me bitch and so many other hurtful words... He made me have sex when I did not wan't to....Life was hell. He punched walls, lay his hands on me... Finally after excluding my family and friends I finally broke up with him. He moved to California...and I was in Mississippi my friend worked at airport...after a week I cried over him.... My friend and her fiance now.. :-) drove me to Cali .....I made up with him I stayed my friends left...then...I was trapped he was cruel again....I was hurt.... His mom bought me a plane ticket back home. I stayed with the friend who took me up there because my parents moved to Vegas...they left me.... I lived with my best friend for a long time until her finance said... Victoria we are getting married you have to move out... I had no car...no help....no anything...so Her fiance made me move in with some guy he just met down street who needed a room mate... A weird dude....who threw his food and everything on the floor...He said I could live with him free of rent if I cleaned his place...which I did it was sick...He kicked his last room mate out throwing all her stuff away O.o ..... I was like omg this is hell...after a few months of torture of non stop gross cleaning. I went online dating...met a lot of jerks...had sex....once they got it took off...I met one guy who was a friend of a friend so I thought yay a good guy...We dated 2 months....I got a call telling me they saw him cheating... I cried stayed over at a friends house then I met David.... He was sweet and told me to move in with his family...I did....THANK GOD So i lived with David he was so sweet to me for months and months and months.... Until....we fought he hit me once....light hit nothing bad...then.....a few months later we were happy...then...he cheated with a girl who was spose to be a new friend of mine when she got there...she turned out being a slut...she even kissed me....O.o I am not gay at ALL!! She took me by surprise and David wanted to see....worst moment of my life... was trying to impress David ....felt violated left room freaking out.... Then we all stayed up late...keep in mind I thought our relationship was great...That night was hell...I tried everything to make David happy I saw a side of him that was.....awful..he was talking about a threesome...I said HELL NO!! YOU ARE NOT TOUCHING ANOTHER GIRL!! OMG!! I got emotional...cried.....etc....He said omg....so I felt bad and he was kind of like well do stuff with the girl then...so I can watch...O.o and i tried...scarred me for life... I could not go through it I was like no...i am not!!! David was upset...O.o I guess he was fucking bored with me...pissed me off I wanted her gone but she had no way to leave..... so it was awkward most of night... then at around 4 am i was tired i did not wanna sleep with them two up...i had a bad feeling in my gut....but i did....i slept...when i woke up...things felt off..... the girl was like thanx for the stay i have a hott date tonight!! an tomorrow too!! David was like...are you serious?? she was like oh yes!! He seemed pissed...and i asked david why do you care what she is doing!!! I started freaking out...and in front of the girl he said something like...maybe we should take a break!! in front of her!!!! i cried and ran to kitchen not understanding anything..... the girl came in there and was like hey hun he is a jerk ok stop crying its ok..... i was like yeah yeah.... so we dropped her off at her house.... and i came home upset.....i was like what the hell!!! OMG!!! he was quiet.... i said you wanna break up!!! he said idk....well...no.....I was like WHAT DID I DO!!!! he said nothing.... then I ignored it and an hour later he was sitting at table and told me....he cheated....told me he kissed her last night when i went to bed...told me he saw her breasts....I broke fucking down on the floor,having panic attack.....cried my eyes out till i could not cry anymore...i had no where to go.....we started to break up...i was scarred...told him i would never forgive him.... and few days past the girl called to hang with me...I made david answer and he said she does not wanna talk..she knows...the girl hung up.... In revenge david called her house telling her dad he was not where he thought she was and she was a slut and hung up an hour or 2 later girl called back saying her dad was kicking her out.. I was like I DONT CARE!!!! HANG UP!!! So...he did.....We ignored each other after that....then we tried making up i would pull away from him...he said he was sorry i cried and ignored him....this went on for like a month. He figured out what big of a slut the girl was and he tried making things up to me....buying stuff....doing things he never did before...but i would not let it go...at work I fell apart the day after he cheated i was spose to go to work I called crying an said i could not make it....every day at work after that I was a wreck my boss finally said...Victoria snap out of it ....I would not speak... I was a zombie.... this went on for another month...then he said sorry a few more hundred times my work mate told me to forgive him or leave him....so....i did not forgive him just kind of stopped thinking about it...we were fine for a few months...then we had a bad fight like a fist type fight that is when he hit me hard....i had a bruise on my arm....and i had to keep it covered for weeks.... it went away and he said he did not mean to hit me that hard...well....we were ok more months past we were fine...we were great no issues...so we moved to Vegas...with my family and i already told you guys the little fight he had with my stepmom....well now we wanna move out....he seems to be treating me ok...and we got good jobs....only thing we fight about now is him saying he is going back to ms leaving me up here...but then he says he loves me an how he would not leave without me.... so that is the story....David has gotten better and has treated me better. We have had lots of bad times...but some good as well....he is trying to do good..he is trying to make this appt plan work....I think it will be better once we move in...no lease or anything so if it did not work out. We could just leave... I am gonna give it a shot...He has been pretty good so far....So....I am hoping this lasts...Guys you can think I am stupid....but I want it to work...I promise if any violence occurs I will leave....But David is not all bad...he takes meds...so sometimes anger can occur if he does not take it...Things are ok for now

that is my story


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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sun Aug 12, 2012 1:04 am

I understand you want this to work out! But he will NEVER change! He just won't! You just told us he has hit you twice already, TWICE!!! HE IS NOT WORTH ANY OF YOUR FUCKING TIME! He is doing this cause he knows your not going to leave him!! He knows he can get away with it. And your proving him right every single FUCKING time you FORGIVE HIM!

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Wendy, we're all trying to reach our hands out to you and help but it seems that there is no stopping you with this decision. More than anything I want you to be happy, I want you to find love and live a wonderful life. But this man- how could a man ever lay a hand on such a wonderful girl like you; a true man would be there to protect you.

Even if he is on meds it shouldn't cloud his judgement, he should know better. You deserve a someone better Wendy, someone who will be there for you no matter what, and even if this man doesn't exist in your life right now don't give up. Keep living, keep fighting, and know that he's out there somewhere in this world. Choose that person over this deceiving bastard and end this chain of horrible events once and for all.

Once again, I know you're going to go through with this anyway, despite what everyone is saying...but promise me that when you two are settled in and WHEN he hits you that you'll finally take our advice and leave. We'll be here for you Wendy, we love you so be careful, but most of all be strong.


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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sun Aug 12, 2012 1:15 am

Wendy...

I can't do this.

I love you, but you are blind...

Your story did NOT make me understand at all why you are staying with this pig you call a man; it only made me question you sanity.

I had written more, but it got erased by the internet disconnecting on me. I'm not writing it again, only thing I will write again is this:

I'm not going to even try anymore to reason with you, but I will not stop praying to GOD for you to see the truth, I will ask others to pray for you to finally realize the truth about this monster you believe is a man you can love.

I'm sorry, Wendy. Only Jesus can make you see the truth now if you will not listen to reason form people who actually love you and care about you.

Also, if you didn't plan on listening to us or anything, why did you even tell us what has been happening to you? If you think that we would have told you that "it's okay, he will stop", then you are just kidding yourself.

I'm sorry, but I will not sweeten anything anymore for you. As I said, Jesus is the ONLY ONE that can find a way for you to see the truth.

I just pray you don't see it when it is too late.

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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Sun Aug 12, 2012 3:08 pm

I agree with Cindy.

I am DONE trying to reason with you.
There's no point now, it's not like you're listening to us anyway. This isn't just a vent session for you, not just tell us how much he hurts you and then accept it and continue with it?

You truly are a fool, and you WILL get hurt. He WILL hurt you, and maybe you'll stay to your word and leave. Maybe not. I feel like you won't. I feel like you'll make more excuses and that you'll be stuck living a life in a relationship full of unhappiness and pain. And years down the road when you want to leave, you'll think back to all of us here trying to help you, the only ones with a clear head and COMMON FUCKING SENSE.

You are frustrating me to no end, and it pains me to see that you still have faith in him. Forget men. Be single. Live life. Love will come when you don't expect it, and you'll know when it's right. When he's the one. And he doesn't hurt you. And he respects you.

Not this dipshit of a BOY you have now.

If you end up with him, I wish that you two fall apart, I wish that you're heartbroken temporarily and then you move on. I do not give you any kind of blessing. I just pray that you see the truth and respect yourself enough to leave him before you set it in stone.

Your story didn't help your cause whatsoever, it made it worse. It makes me stand by what I said before even more.

This person you love, he's not the person who 'loved' you before. He's not the same person. He's changed, for the worst. Or you've just been with him long enough now for him to show you his true colors, which aren't pretty at all. Stop holding on to something that isn't there, please. You're in love with someone who isn't there.

You're blind, you're foolish, and you're going to get hurt.

I love you... Please love you too.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 14, 2012 6:29 am

Ok......I will consider it....I am tired of crying....and everything.....We keep having these small fights....and idk....I will think about everything you all said...I know you are trying to help. I love you all really...I am just going through a hard time. I will think about everything. Talk to me about maybe if I did do something...How I would do it....idk anymore I just don't know
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:23 pm

read over all the messages and statements that are in this topic; we told you already.
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:43 pm

Love, I know I don't really know you well but maybe an impartial word might help. But ever since this thread started I have literally been so scared for you, to know that I now know someone in this situation, and it scares me that you're letting this happen to yourself. I know that you're confused and don't know what to do, but if you're not happy then I just can't understand why you would let this happen. Things are scary, I understand, but they're just going to get a whole lot scarier if you stay with someone that hurts you like this. It can't end well, and all I know is that I would rather you left him now and waited until something better came along rather than staying and getting hurt worse. You can't think of him in a time like this, you have to be selfish and think only of yourself and how this could end up affecting you.

I'm not a religious person but seriously, if it takes prayer to get you to see sense then I'll do it
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:53 pm

yall were right......


Last few nights ago...David woke me up punching me...he pushed me off bed in to a metal fan...hurting my back very bad....


Then I caught him looking at porn.....

Then he called me a bitch....


Then he hit my head....and just so much pain.....


and....again trying to talk through it....

then he said he wants me to pay 60 percent of apartment.....

I am going through so much it gets worse and worse I am trying to fix it ....Trying to pray....I...don't know
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PostSubject: Re: Very Very Upset   Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:56 pm

You DO know what to do!

Call the police, NOW! And Get out of there!

Wendy, we are NOT going to give you what you want to hear! That's everything is going to be alright! It isn't! It just isn't!

Now call the police, NOW! And get out of there! Please for god's sake WENDY!!

FUCKING PLEASE!! I'm over here worried as all living fuck about you! And so are the others! LEAVE HIM AND CALL THE FUCKING POLICE!!!


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